How to Be More Gentlemanly at the Strip ClubDonald | February 7, 2018 | 0 | Escort , Featured
Imagine this: one of your closest pals has just invited you to his bachelor party which is going to be held in an adult lounge. But the problem is that you’ve never been to such an establishment before, so you have no idea what you’re supposed to do. You asked your other friends for advice but they only got raunchy tips that you believe only a jerk would appreciate.
Want to fully enjoy a night of pleasure but still remain a gentleman? Here’s what you can do:
Keep up your appearance
Regardless of where you’re going, ensure that you look well put together. Dressing like a classy guy will get you more attention than donning everyday wear, even if you don’t have the paycheque to match. If you’re going to be heading straight to the venue from work, change into a fresh shirt and splash on a bit of cologne. The dancers will appreciate it especially if you’re interested in getting a lap dance.
Know the real score
At an adult establishment, people pay for an illusion, and you’d do well to remember this. The strippers might be partially or fully naked, but they are performers nonetheless. This means that they are in character for their shifts. You don’t want to ruin the fantasy by expecting one of them to follow you home or to offer anything for free.
Be polite as possible
Despite what you might have seen or heard from the movies, strip club owners and staff rarely call their dancers “girls” and you should do the same. “Miss”, “performer”, and “dancer” are appropriate ways to refer to the women. At the same time, keeping your hands to yourself is also highly appreciated along with giving out a much-deserved tip.
While the performers at an adult lounge are more interested in your money than your words, you don’t have to be so stingy with the latter. Praise a dancer for her moves on the pole or stage. Hooting, winking, and whistling should be left to the less gentlemanly individuals. Genuine enthusiasm and kind words are a better alternative.
Be a good sport
The main focus at the club is the dancers, but you can sometimes find yourself in a situation where you’d need to interact with the other men too. Just ignore any of those who are competitive or inebriated. If necessary, call for help from the small army of bouncers found all over the establishment. There’s no need to get involved in a fistfight or anything of the sort.
Yes, it is possible to act like a gentleman even at an adult club as you can gather from the tips shared above. It would be good if every customer would follow your example, but that’s not possible. So, just be the nice guy in your group and hope for the best for your companions.